Begin with the important people

Record family, close friends, pets and other significant relationships. Include preferred names and how people are connected.

Capture the shape of a life

Childhood, work, places lived, military service, hobbies, travel, achievements and memorable events can all help carers build meaningful conversation.

Include likes and dislikes

Music, food, television, sport, routines, humour, clothing, social preferences and topics someone enjoys can be extremely useful in day-to-day care.

Describe what helps

If the person becomes anxious, confused or upset, record what usually reassures them and what tends to make things worse.

Keep the person in control

Whenever possible, the individual should choose what is recorded and what is shared. A life history should represent them, not simply other people's observations.

Important

This information is general guidance only and does not replace advice from a doctor, nurse, pharmacist or other qualified professional.

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